Unpopular Opinions

[Gomamon]

1. People don't say "if" enough.
They assume everyone will have the same life events as them. They always say "when you do this..." "when this happens to you..." etc etc, but they never use the word "if". It's always "when", "when", "when". It sounds like they're deciding your future, and it kind of feels annoying. Just because something happened to you and most of people around you doesn't mean it will happen to everyone else. Just because you and people around you did something, doesn't mean everyone else will do the same thing. Let people have their own lives and future, don't decide it for them, especially if it's something they will not like, aware of it or not. If someone decides not to do something their family did, that's completely okay. Life is about finding your path and seeing what will make you happy.

2. Similar to this, i hate those people who overreact when you say you don't want kids. I understand you love kids and all, but i don't feel the same. I don't hate them, but i don't want them. Can't people f0cking respect that not everyone will marry and have kids instead of getting shocked and angry as if they commited murder? Holy shit. Just because 90% of people are doing something doesn't always mean i will jump in as well. Either way, kids cost a lot. Diapers, clothes, food, beverages, toys, games, that sounds like a really difficult job and i feel like some people do not think twice about having kids so, they end up disappointed and unhappy. Either way, i am not a big fan of creating someone else in this world, i think it's a wicked world and people often have suic1dal thoughts and start feeling miserable when they grow up. Kids have to go through that after they grow up (though sometimes, some person's childhood can be a miserable time as well, i don't want to generalize), i have gone through that, other people have gone through that so, that's one more reason i don't want kids because i feel like i'll just be a bad father and they'll grow up miserable. It's not a phase and everyday thing, some people really don't enjoy life as much as they try to do. But not everyone understands.